Same game different rules

I’m acquainted with a woman with a past. When I first met her I didn’t know of her past, all I knew was that she wasn’t she in her approach, which intrigued me. At first I fobbed her off whenever she’d ask to meet up as for unknown reasons my sense was tingling. Over the space of about 6 months I started to see this lady out and about on the scene that I frequented. I have quite a large circle of friends and acquaintances so I’m used to people I know knowing each other. However I noticed anytime I’d see this woman out I’d always get strange looks from females I knew (I just put this down to the phenomena of women not being able to get along). I’d also get my male friend saying to me “Oh you know her?” in that tone that meant more than what was being said. Now this had obviously gone beyond my Swagger sense tingling. So I decided to run a CRB check on her (this is standard procedure when dating in a metropolis), the results came back with a plethora of red marks. Some of the feedback even came with “blow by thrust” stories time stamped and everything. That was enough for me to the friend zone maximum security unit for you little Miss Jezebel.

As the years have passed I still see her around and from time to time she’d still flirt with me, and with me being me I’d flirt back but i kept it at words and not even a dance as Ive got hangs up about being sexual associated to women who can be consider as “Everyones girl”. Now one night In the blazing summer of 20″” ( i will not be exposing myself on this one) i got invited out to a friends party at his house. On my way to the party I got a call from one my boys explaining that she was at the party as well. He was calling as he knows how she behaves around me and it really wasn’t that kind of party. He then went onto say and I quote “she’s hear with some poor smuck” (stick with us and we’ll explain why he’s a smuck. So I got to the party, got handed a Brandy as customary and went into the garden and she spotted me but didn’t jump out of her seat is as usual. So I went over to say hi and she was behaving very weird, she was for some reason being very subdued. Ah I get it she trying to impress the smuck. So she introduces me as is good manners which isn’t strange as she loose not rude. The first thing I notice about this guy was that he seem really straight laced, so straight laced that he may be going to church in the morning to actually give sermon.

During the night this guy displayed some true gentlemanly qualities and I couldn’t help but keeping think to myself “poor smuck”. Why was this? Because basically he’d decided to make an honest woman of someone that it wasn’t considered necessary with. Me and my boys made a few jokes about through then night, he’ll she even made a joke with me about how nice he is.

Now here’s the point of this blog.
Why is it an issue that this guy is taking on a serious relationship with a woman who isn’t known for her serious relationship history? Why is this frowned upon? As long as she’s faithgful and not carry the medical encyclopaedia in her vagina then all is fine right? Because if she was a man this wouldn’t even be a topic for discussion. But because she’s a female she is seen as having to have a clear track record and preferably be virginal. Well this is just another one of those double standards that we have in our society and nobody chooses to question. Is it fair? Probably not. Am I trying to shake that foundation? Not really that’s not my mission in life. And if I’m really honest I’m a big fan of gender assigned double standards.